Especially the outcomes of your life. In many respects it’s important to remember that you need to take your foot off the gas pedal of life and listen to the wind instead. For it’s the wind that governs and directs you. Don’t fight it my friend, for you will just exhaust yourself in trying. To fight it would be like pushing water uphill. It’s both pointless and ridiculous.
Lao Tzu said “ He who follows the Tao, seems to be doing nothing”
I think the biggest challenge humanity has is to allow ourselves to just listen to our inner voices, listen to the wind. And in so doing, we become more aware of who we are, we become more aware of our paths and become more productive but seem to be striving less to make it happen.